How modern women are unplugging from the illusion of success and returning to a life of meaning, softness, and soul.
I often wonder about the world we live in—why we came here, why suffering seems so prevalent, and whether this life is truly what it’s meant to be. These questions aren’t unique to me; more and more people are waking up, questioning the nature of our reality, and seeking deeper meaning beneath the surface of modern life.
What many are discovering is that the world we experience daily is not as solid or natural as we once believed. It’s an illusion—an elaborate program we’ve collectively accepted, shaped by societal narratives and expectations. For women in particular, this illusion has had profound consequences.
We don’t yet know if this is truly a simulation or simply a construct of belief and conditioning. But what’s clear is that the system we operate in—a matrix of productivity, validation, and constant striving—has fundamentally pulled women away from their true nature.
For the modern woman, this illusion has been detrimental. It has changed women, and as a result, changed men. The focus for women has shifted in this modern world to seeking constant external validation (thanks to social media), living in a linear way—striving to get ahead, moving through career trajectories towards some elusive idea of success, engaging in hustle culture, and pushing everything across the line. Most of all, it has resulted in a complete disconnection from one’s higher self and from nature.
This is not a life women have created—it’s a program. It doesn’t honour energy flow, life force, or the natural cycles of life. Modern women have been so distracted by the new goals of success and “having it all” that they have ignored their beautiful inner feminine self—the part that finds joy in nurturing family and community, in connecting with inner guidance, and in the simple pleasures of life.
The cost of this new focus has been huge. Many women are no longer recognisable as women. They have lost their softness, their attentiveness to others, and their deep connection to life. They’ve lost touch with who they truly are.
But many women have had enough—enough of the striving, the tiredness, and the false promises of success.
And it is precisely in that moment of “enough” that the feminine begins to stare down the program and the illusion itself.
Because they’ve had enough, women begin to look at the world through different eyes. They notice it feels more hostile than it did in their youth. Something feels off. Something about the way we live no longer fits.
These realisations mark the return of the inner feminine. Her desire for peace, for true happiness, and for a bright future for her children begins to lead. She shifts from selfishness to selflessness—a space where her energy naturally thrives.
She becomes motivated to build her life anew.
She begins to enjoy her children, finds hobbies that bring pleasure, builds meaningful friendships, and feels at ease in solitude. She is returning to her feminine essence.
Her life stabilises. Her husband and children relax in her presence and begin to naturally assume their roles. She is exploring her deep feminine—the part of her that flows with life itself. And in doing so, she begins to liberate herself from the old program.
As more women witness her and feel inspired, they begin to join her.
And slowly, the program and the illusion fall apart.
